{"id":21,"date":"2010-10-15T16:28:28","date_gmt":"2010-10-15T23:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/eatingreport.com\/blog\/?p=21"},"modified":"2010-10-15T16:28:28","modified_gmt":"2010-10-15T23:28:28","slug":"critical-distinctions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/critical-distinctions\/","title":{"rendered":"The Five Critical Distinctions You Must  Make To De-Condition Emotional  Eating Behavior"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To stop your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.emotionaleatingreport.com\">emotional eating<\/a> once and for all you must make five critical distinctions that allow you to de-condition eating so it doesn\u2019t automatically occur whenever one of the triggers or rewards shows up.<\/p>\n<p>The Lefkoe De-conditioning Process helps you make all the necessary distinctions. Specifically the LDP assists you to do the following:<\/p>\n<p>1. You realize that you wanted the \u201creward\u201d (e.g., feeling loved), not<br \/>\nwhat got rewarded (e.g., eating). That enables you to find healthier ways to<br \/>\nget the reward than overeating.<\/p>\n<p>2. You recognize that you wanted what eating provided, for example, a<br \/>\npleasurable distraction from a trigger, not the eating itself. In other words,<br \/>\nyou wanted to stop the \u201ctrigger\u201d (e.g., having negative feelings), you didn\u2019t<br \/>\nwant eating (which was just one arbitrary behavior) that provided you with a<br \/>\npleasurable distraction.<\/p>\n<p>3. You realize that something you thought was \u201cthe truth\u201d because you<br \/>\nthought you \u201dsaw\u201d it in the world, namely, that eating was the best way to<br \/>\nget what you wanted (either a reward or a pleasurable distraction from a<br \/>\nnegative trigger), never really was in the world. You never saw it. That was<br \/>\nmerely a thought that has existed only in your mind as one possible meaning<br \/>\nto gave to a series of events you were trying to understand earlier in your<br \/>\nlife.<\/p>\n<p>4. You realize that eating never really gave you what you wanted. It<br \/>\nprovided a momentary reward or relief from a negative feeling, but as soon<br \/>\nas you finished eating, you were right back where you started.<\/p>\n<p>5. When you are conditioned to eat, knowing that there are alternatives<br \/>\nto eating doesn\u2019t stop the eating. But once eating has been de-conditioned,<br \/>\nyou are able to identify and use healthier ways to get rewards or a<br \/>\npleasurable distraction than overeating.<\/p>\n<p>When you use the Lefkoe De-conditioning Process to make these and other distinctions, your eating conditioning gets de-conditioned. And the overeating that had been due to the conditioning stops easily and for good. If beliefs also happen to be involved,<br \/>\nand they aren\u2019t in most cases, once they have been easily eliminated all<br \/>\nemotional eating stops for good.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do that, you are free from the prison emotional eating has<br \/>\nlocked you in\u2014 free to experience a slimmer body, greater energy and the<br \/>\npeace of mind that comes from an end to your struggle with food.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To stop your emotional eating once and for all you must make five critical distinctions that allow you to de-condition eating so it doesn\u2019t automatically occur whenever one of the triggers or rewards shows up. The Lefkoe De-conditioning Process helps you make all the necessary distinctions. Specifically the LDP assists you to do the following: &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/critical-distinctions\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Five Critical Distinctions You Must  Make To De-Condition Emotional  Eating Behavior&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emotionaleatingreport.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}